Nelson Alex poses as the ideal date on an Indian matrimonial site. I found him on Jeevansathi.com while looking for someone an Indian partner to spend my life with. Shortly after I had created a profile, I was contacted by him. We somehow hit it off, right away, and after just a few days of conversation, he said he wanted to send me something in the mail. | He asked me to pay the delivery fee, however. He made a joke about it and said that it would be worth it once I saw what was inside. I gave him my card information. | He vaguely spoke to me the rest of the day and then not at all the next day. I never got the package, and when I checked my account for information on the cost of the parcel, I realized that he had used me. My bank account was wiped out.